Do you want to be a parent?
Does your partner want to be a parent?
Do you and your partner agree on having children?
How likely is your partner to be an engaged and positive parent?
How would you describe the quality of communication in your relationship?
How well do you and your partner handle conflicts?
Do you and your partner share similar values and cultural practices that would guide your parenting style?
Have you discussed and agreed upon how to divide parenting responsibilities (e.g., household chores, childcare, financial support)?
How would you describe your overall physical health?
How often do you feel stressed or anxious, and do you have effective ways to manage stress?
How would you describe your mental health and emotional stability?
How would you describe your partner’s mental health and emotional stability?
Do you and your partner earn enough to support yourselves and a child comfortably?
Do you have savings or a financial cushion to cover emergencies and unexpected costs related to raising a child?
Do you have health insurance that covers pregnancy, childbirth, and pediatric care?
Do you have family or friends who could provide support if you needed help with childcare, emergencies, or other needs?
How accessible are community resources (e.g., parenting groups, social services, local support)?
Is your current living space and neighborhood safe and secure for raising a child?
Are there any significant safety concerns in your home or neighborhood, such as gang violence, domestic violence, or the potential for physical or sexual abuse?
Is your area prone to instability, such as political unrest, potential war, or the need for evacuation due to fires, floods, or other natural disasters?
